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Monday, August 24, 2009
Compromise,Communicate,Control.
was kinda curious so i went to google about "Things to do with bf before he enter NS". Went to a forum at www.flowerpod.com.sg,then i came across this which is what i'm probably going to go through.
May 12,2006 by Mag "initially my bf cant even bring hp, it went on for around 4mths. imagine every week we cant contact? until he books out. we went through that now its another new training phase. its quite hard to maintain the r/s although u guys love each other alot. things like time management, frustrations of having to wait for him to book out. his mood swings when he has to book in, my pms and no one there to comfort me. espec when you meet alot of new frenz in uni. u will feel that maybe someone can be a better bf and he seems nicer than ur current bf thoughts will run wild espec those overseas trip, u will realise that alot of them visit those sleezy places and you have to really have the trust. personally i think if we are unable to get rid of those thoughts, its realli hard to maintain the r/s and lastly, the goal in life is realli impt. we are at such a diff phase in life and we want different things. thus, once our mindset of life changes, its almost impossible to stay together. " [[years back when i am still a recruit, after 2 weeks i have been enlisted.. she left me with someone.. btw we been together for 3 years that time.. b4 the week i been enlist we went to book a wedding package.. haha.. so unlucky rite.. lols ]] another story by a guy..the girl's an ass. Book wedding package somemore-.-" (I waited 2yrs for my boi. He has ORD since last Nov. Acc him to get his army stuff before he enlist. And I am the only one to see him to his camp on the day he enlist. Attended his POP & ORD parade.Share all his Joy & Tears. When he kana no book out on weekends or gt nite duty, I will always take cab after wrk buy food he likes, some chips,mag & 1.5L sofe drinks for him.Deliver to his camp outside for him & if he can, he will chat with me awhile then i'll cab hm. when he book out, i'll surprise him outside his camp & go his hm together, help him with his laundry etc... I can say this 2yrs what i gain is his 100% trust & faith in me & a stronger r/s.) WOW. i think im like this girl. Hahahah..so interesting. these 3 C's are very important to maintain a relationship while your boyfriend is serving the nation. COMPROMISE,COMMUNICATE,CONTROL. been spending a lot of time with bb,Im HAPPY:) Hope he's happy too! REMEMBER OUR FOOD GALORE SWEETHEART! |